There is an old story, told in a thousand voices, across a thousand epochs.
It is the story of love as a singular path, a singular devotion, a singular undoing. It is the story of the one great love that devours all others, that demands everything in return. In these stories, love is a knife: You cut away what demarcated before from now, you carve out a space in your chest, and you offer yourself to the fire.
We have been told that if love is real, it must be all-consuming. That to step into a love that shakes the very foundation of our being, we must leave behind all that we were prior to its arrival. That love is a portal through which only one version of ourselves—the one robust enough to become the last one standing—may pass.
But there is another story, one that has been murmuring through the cracks of time, waiting for the ones bold enough in their listening to remember it.
It is a story that does not end in exile. It is a story that does not demand erasure. It is the story of love as an ever-growing landscape—wild, untamable, fecund with new life forms. All in all, limitless.
The old myths demand proof: of devotion, of sacrifice, of the idea that love is more than a passing wind.
And how do you prove love? You cut off the past. You forsake what was. You stand in the ashes of your old life and call it transformation.
We have seen this story before.
We, the children of these stories, have inherited the belief that to step into newness and possibility, we must destroy what came before. That love is a house that cannot hold more than one story at a time. That love is a blade, rather than a bridge. That love is a cage, rather than an open sky.
But what if the old myths were wrong? Or rather—what if they were only half the truth?
There is another way. A way where love is not a door that locks behind you, but a horizon that stretches forward into infinity. A way where new love does not demand the sacrifice of the old, but uses it as the substrate upon which to build new possibilities and cultivate new seeds. A way where the heart does not shrink to accommodate a single devotion, but grows to make space for glorious uncontainability.
To love in this way is to refuse the decree for destruction. It is to say:
This is not an easy story to tell. After all, the world trafficks in binaries. The world trusts a stable hearth more than it trusts a blazing comet. Because the world does not know how to hold a love that does not writhe beneath an ultimatum, bow beneath a summons, or bleed beneath a reckoning.
But what if our collective imagination is asking us to stretch into a new truth? One that declares:
Why do we fear the new myth that love is asking us to breathe into being? Because we have been told that to hold more than one love, more than one devotion, more than one truth, is selfish. Because we have been told that if love does not come with sacrifice, it is not real. Because we secretly believe that if we allow ourselves to expand, we will become too vast and peculiar for the world to know what to do with.
But is this fear the voice of love? Or is it the susurration of scarcity dressed in fidelity, the tightening hand that mistakes its grip for grace?
We have learned love from a world that detests its own complexity, that measures the heart in rations, that warns: Take in too much, and you will drown; you will fracture; you will be lost.
But love is not an economy. It is not a careful tally of what is owed and what is spared. Love is the cosmos spilling over itself, a star collapsing and birthing a thousand more. Love is the river that carves new paths in the dark, never asking if it is permitted. Love is the wilderness that does not demand you forget the road behind you, but dares you to detour into the darkness—with everything, with all of it, with all of you.
To love without erasure is to live in the impossible vastness of the in-between. It is to cherish what you have built, without fearing what is still unfolding. It is to step into the arms of something new—something that augurs the unfolding of your most primal hidden truths—without burning down the home that sheltered you as you incubated in the womb of initiation. It is to say yes to fire, without concern that it will consume you whole. (It will, but you'll come out all the better for it.)
This is not a love that the old myths comprehend or have given adequate language to, beyond the binaries that hold our imaginations captive. But it is a love that exists, waiting for those who are bold enough to step beyond the edge of the known map.
To love in this way is not easy. It requires a strength beyond certainty. Because it means holding paradox without trying to resolve it. It means trusting love’s infinitude, even when the world tells you it must be quashed to ensure safe passage. It means rambling into the unknown—not with a torch to burn the past, but with open hands to greet the sacred unknown.
And perhaps that is what this moment in time is beckoning us toward. Not a love that demands exile. Not a love that trades one version of the self for another. Not a love that forces us to choose. But a love that is large enough to hold everything. A love that refuses the old maps and fashions a new myth by threading together all the directions. A love that does not end in destruction, but in widening—until the heart itself becomes a universe, large enough to hold both the roots and the sky. A love that is not a cage. But a new world, waiting to be made through our longing and our liberation.